Monthly Archives: January 2017

The Israelis and Arabs, so I’ve been told, have difficulties getting along.

Two boys are in a fight, rolling and tumbling over and over again. Mom intervenes, picking up each boy, and holding them apart with her hands. “Who started this fight?” she asks.

Of course you never get to the bottom of this one!

The Israelis and Arabs, so I’ve been told, have difficulties getting along.

Ask an Arab why he perpetrated a violent act on Israel and he will say it’s because an Israeli did it first. The Israeli will respond he did it because of an Arabic attack. Better get comfortable. This conflict goes back at least forty centuries!

You watch a nationally televised court case. First the defendant is described as an angel from heaven by the defense, then the Devil from hell by the prosecution.  Which is he? Probably neither, but the jury has the tough task of determining whether he lives or dies, is free or incarcerated.

I suppose there are always two sides of a disagreement.  The writer of Proverbs acknowledges this.

“The one who states his case first seems right, until the other comes and examines him” (Proverbs 18:17, ESV).

So will we ever know who killed J.F.K.? And whether O.J. killed his wife?

Was Lincoln sincere when he signed the Declaration of Emancipation? (Some feel he just wanted the support of the slave population).

Historians argue over these issues. As one suggested, “History is an argument without end” (Pieter Geyl).

Disney in the “Lion King” spoke of “the circle of life.” Maybe someone in Disneyland swallowed a vial of New Age. But they are wrong. Life is not a circle; it is a line, moving in a specific direction.

Judgment.

God has, the apostle Paul declared, “fixed a day on which he will judge the world in righteousness” (Acts 17:21).

There all the wrongs will be righted. There the judge who knows hearts will reveal everything. History will have a conclusive, definitive ending. We should live as if this was so.

— by Stan Mitchell

Who changed him?

“The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will
have no lack of gain. She does him good, not harm, all
the days of her life” (Proverbs 31:12, ESV).

Counselor: “What seems to be the problem?”

Woman: “My husband is not the man I married. He’s
changed! And not for the better, either!”

Counselor: “How long have you been married?”

Woman: “Fifteen years.”

Counselor: “And who do you suppose has been the
greatest influence, for better or worse, in his life
these last fifteen years? If he has changed, as you
say, who changed him?”

I don’t think that at the outset of a marriage any one
intends to bring her spouse “harm.” Weddings are
optimistic affairs, after all, full of good intentions.

An excellent question to ask before getting married is:
“Does this person make me better when I am around him?”

An even better question is this: “Do I make him better
when he is around me?”]”

A good relationship is one where each makes the other
better. The “worthy woman” of Proverbs is outstanding
because her husband’s accomplishments, the respect he
has in his community, his character, are largely
because of her good influence.

She “brings him good…all the days of her life.”

You will change your spouse; the question is whether
you will change him for the better or the worse!

by Stan Mitchell