As a US citizen, we have the right to say what we want. According to the 1st Amendment, even the government can’t stop us from saying what we feel and think. The definition of freedom according to Google is, “The power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint.” However, as Christians, Philippians 3:20 tells us that our citizenship is in heaven. As a citizen of heaven we must follow the commands of God. Colossians 3:8 commands that we are to refrain from “filthy language.” Titus 3:2 tells us to “malign no one.” Also Ephesians 4:29 states, “Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth…”
As citizens of heaven we are to pursue a life of holiness (1 Peter 1:14-16 and Romans 12:1). We need to start with prayer and ask God to guard our mouths (Psalm 141:3) and to help our words and meditations of our hearts be acceptable in the Lord’s sight (Psalm 19:14). We need to weigh the consequences of our words (Proverbs 15:28) and realize, sometimes it is better to remain silent. Solomon wrote in Proverbs 10:19, “When there are many words, transgression is unavoidable, But he who restrains his lips is wise.” When our words are chosen carefully and with grace (Colossians 4:6), they can be used to edify others (Proverbs 12:18; Ephesians 4:29; Proverbs 16:24).
Unfortunately, there will always be people in this world who think “freedom of speech” really means “they can say what they want, no matter what.” God has given us scripture teaching us how we are to respond to ugly words. Proverbs 15:1 states, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.” If a gentle answer does not do the trick, sometimes it’s best to just remove ourselves from the situation. When there is no fuel, the fire will go out (Proverbs 26:20). We need to remember we are never to pay back evil for evil (Romans 12:17-18). Also let us never forget to pray for those who persecute us (Mathew 5:43-44).
God’s Word has never allowed us to have complete freedom of speech. Our speech reveals a lot about our hearts (Luke 6:45; Matthew 12:33-35). Are we continually maturing spiritually when it comes to taming our tongues? Let us choose to build up, not destroy, for we will give account to God (Matthew 12:36-37).
Scripture taken from NASB
Renee Hunter
http://www.teachmethebiblecurriculum.com/
Renee,
This article is like a fresh breath of air in a stale and stagnant world.
Thank you! Your words are encouraging.
This is chock full of all the things I needed to hear.